There Is No App For Happiness: Max Strom at TEDxKC
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I saw a friend post this today:
"Suppose you graduate from college at 22 and work until age 70…you would’ve spent: 16 years working, 15 years sleeping, 5-7 years watching TV, 3 years eating, 2-3 years commuting, and 2-4 years on recreation."
I haven’t had a chance to double check his numbers, but I think the message is clear.
What are your priorities today? Don’t end up 70 years old with these five most common regrets.
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How many people have ever lived on Earth? Whether you believe it’s 107,602,707,791 or not, I think we can all agree that the answer is a lot.
That means we should have tons of insight into what people regret the most when they are dying so we don’t make the same mistakes over and over and over again for thousands of years, right?
After reading countless articles on this topic, here’s what I learned…
In 2005, Scientific American and WebMD claimed, ”New research traces regret to the brain’s medial orbitofrontal cortex.” As recent as a couple months ago, ScienceMag.org published a study (reported on NYTimes.com) saying, “…brain activity in a region called the ventral striatum, which is associated with feelings of regret.”
Top 5 Most Common Regrets of the Dying (by Bronnie Ware, author of the full-length memoir, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying - A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing, released worldwide):
- I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
- I wish I didn’t work so hard.
- I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
- I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
- I wish that I had let myself be happier.
- Don’t ignore your dreams.
- Don’t work too much.
- Say what you think.
- Cultivate friendships.
- Be happy.